All parents want a better life for their children and even better than they had spent themselves but sometimes this kind act becomes the cause to invoke bad habits and irresponsibility among the children many parents of now days used to have a lot of work and responsibilities when they were younger. And now they want their children to save from the some troubles and responsibilities.
Many parents feel good when their children give a lot of time to play and spend doing other activities but they must remember that such ways can create trouble for your child in the future. Children who are kept away from responsibilities grow as adult who don’t know how to keep their apartment clean or don’t remember to pay the bills.
You can teach responsibility to your child with chores around the house. If a child is paid some allowance for chores, you teach him the initials about working for pay, saving as well as spending. A sense of involvement can also be instilled I the child if the child is allowed to select chores for himself. You need not feel shy about allowing your child to know about your tiredness after work and demonstrate in front of him such a way as everyone in one’s life has responsibilities. A child will be more enthusiastic in chores if he knows that he is helping to lessen the burden of his dad or mom.
To allow your child to make choices is another important part of teaching responsibility. You must provide every opportunity to your children to make choices for themselves. You must have two choices in mind for your children whenever you allow your children to make a choice instead of asking them what they want or like. You should ask such questions as “What do you like peanut bologna or peanut butter?” Whatever your child chooses, just make him stick to it.
Children must know what will be the results for their actions and that’s why accountability is considered an essential part of responsibility. If your child doesn’t perform according to expectations, it is needed to have a correspondent event that will stop him from avoiding responsibility. You must make your child to apologize whenever he does something wrong. It is better to have a face-to-face apology as it will compel him to admit the responsibility for his wrong behavior.
If children learn responsibility, it boosts a higher self-esteem and confidence in them to perform new things. A responsible child can help his family to run peacefully and also become a responsible citizen that can be very handy for the whole nation and the country as well.